My name is Lauren Blanchard Zalewski!  I’m so glad you are here!

I refer to myself as a “gratitude addict,” because that’s absolutely what I AM – an addict of GRATITUDE!

For the past decade I have made it my passion to write about as well as share with the entire world about the power of GRATEFUL living and how it can help us to live lives of exquisite joy and wholehearted GRATITUDE.

What makes me different? I promote GRATITUDE for every situation as I feel its immense power can help to reduce the emotional effects of the many roadblocks in our lives.

I have lived with chronic pain/illness for 20 years, so my main focus is sharing my message and experience with others who live with chronic physical and emotional conditions. But at the end of the day, the lessons I teach are for anyone who wants to ‘up their game’ in the inevitable struggles of life!

GRATITUDE is the answer!

9 years ago I hit a rock-bottom in my life after losing myself emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually to the effects of chronic pain.  I had turned to alcohol as a way to shut out the world and self-medicate my pain, and it ended up taking me down a dangerous and destructive path.  One that I am so GRATEFUL to have gotten out of!

I was fortunate enough to attend a month-long inpatient program devoted to dealing with the emotional suffering that goes along with chronic pain and illness. I got sober and immersed myself in studying about the ways we can take control over the emotional suffering that almost always goes along with chronic physical pain. 

A passionate student of the human experience, I have made it my life’s work to study and pass on the knowledge that I have accrued so we can all live our best lives despite our struggles.  7  years ago,  I began my own group called “Attitude of Gratitude with Chronic Pain” on Facebook.  Our main focus is on coming to a place of acceptance and moving forward with GRATITUDE to reduce the suffering we once endured.  We want to move on with our lives and live them in the most fulfilling and wholehearted way possible!

This complaining-free zone is a place of learning and bettering ourselves by using intentions, mindfulness, journaling, community, and connection, as well as practicing GRATITUDE!  We bring JOY back into our own lives by helping each other.  Our “little” group has now grown to over 8,100 members and spans 82 countries!

In addition, I host a live broadcast every Thursday at 8 pm EST on both Facebook Live and on my YouTube channel called “Gratefully Living the Chronic Life”.    Each week we speak about a different topic relating to incorporating GRATITUDE into our lives despite our struggles. Viewers have the option to have their comments, tips, and questions appear on the broadcast screen in this town-hall type interactive broadcast.  Most weeks I have a special guest on with me who is an expert in their field and shares various ways we can make our lives better despite the blind turns in the road that come our way in this life.

My first book was released by Rockridge Press last year and is called, The 5-Minute Gratitude Journal for Teen Boys: Quick Prompts for Wisdom, Courage, and Confidence.  I was honored to have been asked to write this special book in order to help today’s teens who have their own unique stressors and struggles….especially in this age of the pandemic.  On March 29, 2022, my brand-new book will be released, the “52-Week Intention Journal: Guided Prompts to Build a Practice of Reflection, Focus, and Meaningful Change” also through Rockridge Press.  Throughout the 52-weeks and 172 pages of this book, I share in detail the various strategies and tools that I have used myself to live a life that makes me excited to wake up in the morning!  I help the reader craft the life that they want to live-one that is aligned with their soul and life’s purpose.

You’ll also want to check out my blog page to read about my thoughts on all things relating to GRATITUDE and/or living with chronic illness.

My second chance at life (I call it “Lauren 2.0!”) has brought me to a place of becoming a teacher and a carrier of the light that was so tenderly and generously carried for me.  The wisdom that I share is simply gathered from my personal experience and learning-I am a seeker and forever student who is always looking for physical, spiritual, emotional, and mental breakthroughs and ways to ease our path to one of healing and wholeness.

Allow GRATITUDE to fill your mind, body, and soul to take us from a place of pain and suffering to a place of serenity and light.

Join me as I show you how! 

Let’s get our GRATITUDE on!

Latest blog posts!



This week’s episode of “Gratefully Living the Chronic Life!” – Thursday, January 20 at 8pm EST where my special guest will be Kevin Monroe on “Living IN the Power of GRATITUDE!”

Each week I come to you LIVE for hour-long, authentic conversations with expert guests offering solution-based topics and strategies on how to live our best lives with GRATITUDE and intention despite struggles such as chronic physical and/or emotional pain.

This week, my guest will be Dr. Kerry Howells, author of “Untangling You: How Can I Be Grateful When I Feel so Resentful?”

This incredible book is a game-changer for anyone who may be struggling to find GRATITUDE in their lives due to harboring resentments against others….and even against yourself! Please join us for what is sure to be an incredibly informative hour that can change the way you approach your life and enable to you break free from the chains of resentment!

About Dr. Kerry Howells:
“Dr. Kerry Howells is an author and award-winning educator who has spent over 25 years researching, teaching and practicing gratitude. Kerry is passionate about harnessing the role of gratitude to bring about flourishing relationships, a respectful workplace culture, and, ultimately, a more peaceful world. Her work focuses on how to apply the research on gratitude (her own and others), and the strategies she has developed, to life’s challenging situations. Kerry’s recent book Untangling you: How can I be grateful when I feel so resentful? has been met with critical acclaim internationally.”

You can discover more about her offerings at kerryhowells.com


My goal is to help provide my audience and followers with the information and resources you need in order to live your most wholehearted, joyful, and meaningful life. 

Whether you live with chronic pain or not, “Gratefully Living the Chronic Life” brings topics and guests who help ALL OF US through life’s struggles.

**episode will be recorded for later viewing**



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